By Doris Tarbutton
This third letter of John, who identifies himself as “the elder”, is another treatise with the theme being truth. After studying through all three letters written by John, we know two things for sure: God is Love and loves us, and we must embrace the Truth as a part of the Spirit of Jesus.
Verses 1-4 The elder, to my dear friend Gaius, whom I love in the truth.
Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well. It gave me great joy to have some brothers come and tell about your faithfulness to the truth and how you continue to walk in the truth. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.
John identifies himself as the writer and sender of this letter, not only as a friend of Gaius, but as his spiritual mentor and authority. Gaius, a personal friend of John and a brother in “the truth”, is characterized as an exemplary believer. Just as we write to friends and family expressing a desire for their continued good health and happiness, so John addresses Gaius.
The niceties out of the way, John truly compliments Gaius in the area of his spiritual walk with the Lord. The report John received was that Gaius was standing firm in the truth John had taught him. He was being faithful to the true teachings of the Gospel. There is a great joy that comes to the teacher when a student, a disciple, learns the lesson and assimilates it into his life. This joy and satisfaction in their continuing in the truth of the Gospel was John’s reward for his ministry among them.
Verses 5-8 Dear friend, you are faithful in what you are doing for the brothers, even though they are strangers to you. They have told the church about your love. You will do well to send them on their way in a manner worthy of God. It was for the sake of the Name that they went out, receiving no help from the pagans. We ought therefore to show hospitality to such men so that we may work together for the truth.
It is our responsibility to provide for those servants of God who come to minister among us. We experience this now when the church holds a special meeting, a concert or a seminar. We do not personally know these people, but as fellow workers in the Gospel ministry, we recognize the Holy Spirit within them and the truth they are to share with us. It is the people of God who provide for them when they come. It is not to be the people of the world who do not know God. God gives to us freely, we are to give freely to others. Matthew 10:8 concludes “Freely you have received, freely give.”
What we have to share, the Gospel, does not belong to us, but to God and His Kingdom. We are the servants that carry it wherever we go. John exhorts us to “work together for the truth.”
Verses 9-10 I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to be first, will have nothing to do with us. So if I come, I will call attention to what he is doing, gossiping maliciously about us. Not satisfied with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers. He also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church.”
By his behavior and underlying motives we can see that Diotrephes was a deceiver and an antichrist. His sins standout blatantly: “loves to be first”, “gossiping maliciously”, “refuses to welcome the brothers”, “puts them out of the church.” Somehow this man had risen to a position of great authority in the church. John does not indicate whether he was a church official or a church member like every one else.
There are those false disciples in the church whose purpose is to disrupt fellowship, to cause confusion and division. They are disciples, not of God but of the devil. Listen to what Paul wrote to the Roman church some 30 years earlier: Romans 16:17-19 “I urge you brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naïve people. Everyone has heard about your obedience, so I am full of joy over you; but I want you to be wise about what is good, and innocent about what is evil.”
John was not addressing a new issue, but an old issue with a different name on it. False disciples were a problem in John’s time. Do we have them in our churches today? Yes! What are we to do? We are to follow the example of the godly man, Gaius. We are to stand firm in the truth and not accept the false teachings. We are not to listen to the malicious gossip. We are not to follow the example of inhospitality. We must stand for the truth of God in Jesus Christ our Lord.
Verses 11-12 Dear friend, do not imitate what is evil but what is good. Anyone who does what is good is from God. Anyone who does what is evil has not seen God. Demetrius is well spoken of by everyone—and even by the truth itself. We also speak well of him, and you know that our testimony is true.”
Gaius was not the only godly man in this church. Another man, Demetrius, was also seen as standing firm in the truth. His life produced the fruit of the Spirit that was seen by those around him. He is an example for us too. As we walk in the truth, obedient to the commands of our God of love, the fruit of the Spirit will be produced in us and begin to show in our outward lives. Our standing firm in the truth and faith is an evidence of our obedience to God.
John gives his friend, Gaius, some sound encouraging advice: “do not imitate what is evil but what is good.” We will do well to heed this advice as well. Our eyes are to be focused on Jesus and His truth. We are to turn away from anything that is evil. If we look on evil, listen to gossip, participate even passively in evil we become sharers in the evil. We must constantly guard our minds, our eyes and ears from receiving any evil. Instead, we follow the commands of God and do what is good. The statement “anyone who does what is good is from God” does not mean an occasional good deed. It means a person who consistently stands for the purity, the holiness, the righteousness, the truth of our Lord.
Verse 13 I have much to write you, but I do not want to do so with pen and ink. I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face. Being there in person was John’s desire, but it was not possible. A letter must do. However eloquent the letter, it is not as powerful as a face to face discussion. With all our technology of sending letters electronically, we are removing the personal from our communications. We must make sure that we gather together on a regular basis to share fellowship and talk about the Lord.
Verse 14 Peace to you. The friends here send their greetings. Greet the friends there by name. Although Diotrephes wielded great influence in the church, it is evident that there was a group of faithful believers who stood firm in the faith. Here John wishes to greet each one by name. Each one is precious to him as a disciple. “Peace to you” is the common Hebrew greeting and benediction. We hear the Hebrew word shalom. It is the same greeting. It is not a wish or a desire of John but is a pronouncement of a blessing on these faithful ones in this divided and confused church. Let us work and be discerning in our service to the Lord to bring peace to all the members of our church and the extended family of God.